This time living desk: Men are overwhelmed with joy when they hear the news of becoming a father, just as it is happy for a woman to hear the news of becoming a mother. Knowing that he is going to feel the taste of fatherhood, joy, fear, panic works in his mind. How to be a father, how to raise a child, what to do for them, all these causes fear and panic in the mind. Everyone is ready to do what it takes to be a good parent. However, this preparation will never end, it will continue. Here’s what to look for and tactics to help ease the way.

Start research

You are not pregnant, but that does not mean that you are not part of the pregnancy and childbirth experience. Even those with surrogacy or adoption can make themselves part of the whole process.

There are multiple books for expectant fathers. Again, various information and knowledge can be obtained online. Get involved in research as soon as your partner shows signs of pregnancy. Understanding what they are feeling will help you better help your child’s mother.

If you have a preconceived notion of what to do to take care of a newborn, starting with labor pains, it will be helpful. Not only this, with the help of Vaginal Delivery and Cesarean delivery, Breastfeeding, Baby Diaper Changing, How to Embrace, Sleep etc.

Stay healthy

Keep yourself healthy before the baby is born. If you have a habit of smoking, quit. It has been found that smoking during pregnancy increases the risk of congenital heart defects in newborns.

Eat healthy food. It will give you the strength to work all day and night. Include fiber-rich and immune-boosting foods in your chess list.

Get your health checked. Think about whether you have all the necessary antidotes.

Discuss parenting with your partner

What kind of parent do you want to be when it comes to planning? What to buy for the baby, cradle or bed – where to sleep? One of them will not work? What to do to take care of the child? Discuss all these issues with your partner.

There are some discussions that don’t make sense at the moment. But don’t forget to judge its importance by looking to the future. Such as when the child, any subject will interrupt or talk. Have a clear discussion with your partner about all these things.

Do teamwork

It’s time to think of yourself as a team. You, your child’s mother and child are bound in the same bond for the rest of your life. Even if you have no relationship with your spouse, your child’s parents and this fact will never change. So remember that you are competing to be a good parent and you have to win this competition.

If your partner is suffering from any problem like morning sickness, help him. Helping him means helping yourself and your child. Make food for your partner to comfort him, you can take care of your family even while doing housework.

Think about what kind of father you want to be

There are many who do not have a good relationship with their father. But if you have a good relationship with your father, you can think of building yourself up to be like him. If your dad has accepted the sacrifice for you, then it is normal for you to have tension. Whether he can be a good father like his own father or not, he will think about it. But how you can build yourself as an ideal father or who to follow in this case, you decide.

Talk to experienced parents

You may have one or two friends who are already parents. Talk to them. Learn from them about the challenges of being a parent.

Go to the doctor with your partner

You too go to the doctor with your partner to encourage yourself about pregnancy and child rearing. You will have the experience of seeing your child in the ultrasound, as well as you will be able to gain knowledge by talking to the doctor about various issues including pregnancy.

Even if you have a question, you can find out the answer from the doctor. However, if you can’t go to these appointments due to work pressure, then discuss with your partner and fix the next appointment.

Admittedly, sex can change lives

This process of becoming a parent will also affect your sex life. When you first get the good news from your partner, love for him may arouse the desire to be close to your partner. Again, doing things that can affect the pregnancy can make you nervous. Even having sex may or may not be appropriate. The only way to get out of this situation is to talk openly with your partner.

I have heard many experiences from friends about the end of sex life after having a child. In fact, it takes time for pregnancy and childbirth to return to normal sex life. This is not just about 6 weeks of recovery. After the birth of a child, it is not the last word that the body is healthy. You also need to be sensitive to the changes that you are going through. Inadequate sleep can make you uncomfortable. Discuss with your partner all the emotions that work after the baby is born. Also discuss each other’s needs and needs when it comes to getting close or having sex. Many parents become closer to each other after having children.

You can prepare everything before the arrival of the child

Just having children is not the last word. Preparations are also needed to show that child the light of the world and to raise him. Find out in advance how to choose a place for your baby to sleep, what he or she needs to do, how to save money, how to take care of a child. Also, arrange your vacation application, make a bag for the hospital and so on.

Speak for the mother of the child

Talk to your partner, not just about family matters. When the partner will be able to return to work, support their decision on the subject or at home. Many people have postpartum depression. Seek expert advice in such situations. Help your partner get out of this. Remember, two healthy parents are good for the baby.

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Share the responsibility

What to do during pregnancy is discussed. But remember, do not shy away from participating in the postnatal process. Your role is also important in this case.

How to take care of a newborn

1. Change their diapers. Do this regularly, not only during the day, but also at night.

2. Bathe the baby.

3. Spend time with the child.

4. Try to understand your child.

5. When sleeping, sing a special sleeping song.

. Feed your baby by bottle feeding. Again, if the child drinks only breast milk, lift his belly. Take necessary care before and after breastfeeding.

. Bring food and drink for the mother of your child.

. Help your partner with all the other household chores.

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Maintain a sense of humor

Raising children is a difficult and complex task. But on the other hand, it is also funny. In any case, do not let the line of laughter fade. Find the food of laughter in any small incident.

Sleep

Adequate sleep is very important to keep the body and mind healthy. However, after the birth of the child, the night’s sleep flew away. So when the time, opportunity to sleep full. Sleep in shifts if possible.

You are also important for the child

Sometimes you may find yourself in an unnecessary or canceled account. You have to go back to work at some point. Then you may feel that you are not able to take care of your child. You will begin to think of yourself as a bad father. But to meet the needs of the family you have to go to work outside, it will never make you a bad parent.

Believe me, there will always be occasions when your child will share his or her special experience with you or share his or her thoughts with you.

Fatherhood is a long-term feeling. Your presence in the child’s life is a gift you gave him and himself.