This time living desk: Marriage – There are many things involved in this whole affair. Marriage is not just a union of two people, it is a union of two minds. The scope of marriage is huge. Marriage means the union of two families and their culture. Marriage means at home. All relatives will be united. A few days are spent eating and drinking and laughing together. Along with that, there is a lot of fun throughout the wedding ceremony. The marriage mantra has been recited in Sanskrit since ancient times. There is a lot to be said in this mantra. The two promised to walk the path together keeping Agni as a witness. But many people do not understand this clumsy Sanskrit mantra. Problems with pronunciation too. Somehow he forced the priest to obey the rules. And many in this generation do not like mantras. To avoid these problems, many people have given seal to legal marriage.

In Hindu scriptures, every mantra of marriage has a specific meaning. For example, the husband will take care of all the responsibilities of the wife, the wife will handle every responsibility of the family with devotion, etc. But over time, that is likely to change. The overall picture of the wedding has changed. Even in Bengali marriages nowadays mehndi, music has been mixed with yellow iburovat on the body. As a result, getting married today is a mega event. So when you are floating in such a festival, say these few oaths together. Whether it is a legal marriage or a marriage of relatives by playing drums, you must tell each other these few things for yourself.

Share all the responsibilities together- Both husband and wife are now working. Also, everyone is accustomed to work while staying out of the house for work. So the girls will do all the housework alone, all that is now past. The two of them have to handle the housework together. As a boy, I will not wash the dishes or clean the house. The world belongs to two. And so the two of them decide who will take which responsibility. If we work together, the work will be much faster.

Give each other space- Everyone is busy with their work now. With the pressure of the new world – it is normal to get frustrated from time to time. So always have fun with your friends, not just the two of you. It’s not like the two of them have to go together in any chat. Rather go out with that friend. Have a house party. You can also go shopping alone. Or you can watch your favorite movie.

Give importance to each other’s preferences- Not everyone’s choice is the same. Not everyone’s choice is the same. But not to neglect the choice of the partner. Give importance to his choice. Sometimes you can do the work of your choice together. It can be social work or cooking. Or pack your bags and go out on a road trip. Even if the coffee is not good, you can go to a coffee shop with others.

Not Criticism – Not criticizing each other in front of family members or relatives and friends. Not even judging by flaws. The mistake that can easily get your claim denied is to fail. Not everyone will be perfect. Rather, people learn through mistakes. So stay close to each other to avoid criticism. Instead, protest immediately if someone insults your partner in front of you. Love each other The less you listen to people’s words, the better.

Take any decision together- After marriage, neither I nor I have anything to say. Instead, think of it as ours. And so the two of them decide together. Because in this case, the opinion of the two is also important. Discuss together where and how much money to spend, how to save, family expenses. This will make your bond stronger. At the same time there will be positivity in married life.