This time living desk: Tirtha has always been a very shy boy. Loves to be silent all the time. If you ask three questions, answer one. Can’t easily mix with anyone. When the siblings of the house used to sit together and chat, they would quietly move away from there. However, the parents were not very worried about this. How will this boy adapt to college, how will he stay out of the house! He had a couple of friends while in college, but his college life was not like the other five ordinary boys and girls. However, Tirtha has always been very good at studying. As a result, he used to be busy with college tuition and tuition. Went to college fest only once in four years of college life. When such a boy had to leave the house for the first time, the man of the house seemed to fall into the abyss.

The mother was worried about how the boy would stay out of the house for so long and what he would eat. But after six months of training, the boy has changed a lot. But it was not easy to mix. After three years, he got married to his parents’ favorite bride Shreyasara. The mother-in-law had earlier told the future daughter-in-law that if the mind of this ‘Ramgarur’s child’ could be changed a little. Shreyasa-Tirtha has met several times before marriage. Chat, coffee dates are all over. I remember both of them quite well. Within six months of the marriage, a strange change took place in Tirtha too. Now he can talk to Shreyasara with an open mind. He also called friends at home and chatted. But how is this impossible?

Talk to each other, not social media- If the partner is introvert, then you have to try to understand from the beginning where his problem is. Why can’t he speak with an open mind? At the same time spend time with each other without spending too much time on social media. Talk. The mind will be good.

Give him a chance to speak- Give him a chance to talk in different ways. Try to be his best friend. Understand him. But you have to understand where his problem is. Because you are his life partner.

Give him freedom in many ways- Let the partner be his own. Give yourself the opportunity to spend time like yourself. Never interfere with freedom. He will be happy. With that, your understanding will be better.

Discuss some issues in depth- Be sure to consult with him before making any decisions. Don’t do anything without his opinion. He may be shy but that is not his weakness. Rather, it means that the relationship between the two is important to express his opinion there. And so he must be in the discussion.

Occasionally go on a trip- Plan to visit occasionally with such a partner. Go on a weekend trip. Go to the special dinner. When you go for a walk, just like you spend time together, you will also let him draw for some time. His mind will be better if he stays alone with nature for a few moments. You will see that he is also talking with an open mind.