This time living desk: Riya, the only child of the parents, has been a very affectionate person since childhood. There was no shortage of food, fruit, dry fruits, sightseeing, tuition, dance classes, drawing classes. Rear parents used to come and go to school and drop off tuition. After high school, when he saw all his friends coming and going alone, he was very sad because his family was reluctant to leave him alone. Meanwhile, friends used to travel by bus alone. Even in tuition, he was never left alone. Rhea thought that maybe in college she would get some relief from this bondage. But the situation is the same there. At first I thought my parents were thinking that college is a little far from home. Meanwhile all the colorful life of friends.

Going to eat in the canteen, shopping, movies – nothing left. But Riya is still given a tiffin by her mother from home. The day Shinjini told him to go to the cinema and did not allow him to leave the house, it was as if he had tied the knot at home. Mom had a big fight with Riya. In this way, he strongly protested against keeping her in custody, not giving importance to her opinion, not allowing her to go out with friends. He has grown up now, he has some opinions of his own, he has his own desires, he has hobbies so he cannot be stopped. But mother is stubborn. He thought the girl would become inhuman if she loosened the fence. The mother’s idea is that the girl has not yet learned to recognize the right person. Not just Rhea. There are many more victims like Riya. Many parents think that their child is not old enough to understand good and evil. Only they can understand the good and bad of the child. Not only that, they think that the child does not have the ability to take responsibility. But this idea is not entirely correct. But how to explain to parents

Explain the responsibilities that you can take on at home- In most homes, parents decide what their children will study in the future. When the path to the future begins after the twelfth grade, but many do not get the opportunity to read about the subject of their choice. Because the man of that house. Many parents do not want to understand that a career can be built with something other than the past. From here the child has to take responsibility. Parents need to understand why you want to read about it. At home you must show that you are able to make your own decisions.

Parents must be consulted- Parents but always wish the child well. Maybe you don’t agree with them. But you must take their opinion. Thousands of them are more experienced than you. It will also have a good relationship with them. The understanding between the two will be fine.

Less sympathy between parents? – When parents take too much care of their child, they forget that empathy is lost somewhere. The child is also growing up. His own likes, opinions must be. Even if not today, after two days he will have to leave. But it will not work if there is less sympathy. If necessary, get angry.

If parents do not allow privacy – After a certain age, every person needs privacy. But many are reluctant to accept it. If the boy or girl closes the door for any reason, they come and knock again and again. Many parents do not want their children to understand that they need their own space when they grow up. They are very ignorant about some things. And so you have to take the initiative in this regard.