This time living desk: Satyaki and Rima have been in love for four and a half years. Talk from social media. Of course there was no love from the beginning. About seven months after the conversation, they fell in love with each other. I love you- I didn’t say it in my mouth but I realized that they have fallen in love with each other. From the very beginning, of course, their long distance love. As a result, the chances of meeting are very low. Eventually the two planned to meet. They met and their love story began. There is trouble in leaving each other. At the same time, both of them are busy with work all day long. They are not seen more than twice a year. As a result, trust that phone. However, misunderstandings and quarrels are not less. Meanwhile, after two years, they started chasing two houses for marriage.

After a year, Rima agrees, but Satyaki does not agree at all. I want one more year. Love, agree to live together, but nothing was going to persuade him to marry. This time the burden fell on Rima. Satyaki must be persuaded anyway. Because he is not willing to wait unnecessarily from his house. Rima is in big trouble. Not just Rimai. Many girls now talk about this same problem. Today’s boys, aged 28-30, don’t want to get married at all. Even if it is a long-term love. Meanwhile, the problem is, now all love is between peers. As a result, although there is no objection to the age of marriage of boys, many households are objecting to the age of girls. How to deal with the problem?

First ask your boyfriend how important marriage is to him

The answer to this question is given one by one. One’s thoughts are like this. Nowadays, there are less plans for boys to settle down after getting married. You also need to know what he thinks about marriage. But not all boys are the same. Many boys want to get ready before marriage. To create your own workplace, car, home.

If you want to get married, plan like that

If your partner says yes he wants to get married then plan accordingly. If you say today, you will not get married tomorrow. Preparation also takes quite a while. There is no such difference between six months before and after marriage. At the same time, he has to consider his family and partner.

Explain the reality to him

Explain the reality to your partner. The relationship between the two of you. So he needs to think about himself as well as you. When all the other friends around get married, there is a natural stress. Yet marriage is one’s own decision. It is not necessary to get married after seeing someone. But if you want to get married, it is not too late.

Give time value

Time is of the essence in everyone’s life. No one now has the mentality of wasting time behind someone unnecessarily. Unless it is a 24 year old love. Everyone has a specific goal in life. There are careers. If you see that there is a mismatch in the mentality, misunderstandings are increasing, a person is making compromises, then it is better not to keep that relationship for long. Decide your life in the cold head.

Do not take the relationship forward unless you want to

After four years of steady relationship, if the partner does not understand you, do not want to get married, then there is no point in moving the relationship forward. Because you also have to come to a decision in life. The people of the house are also important there. And his mentality is to spend his whole life with him but it is very problematic.