This time living desk: If desire is not aroused in love, then it does not turn into love. Literary Tarashankar Banerjee has said this many centuries ago. He, however, has only expressed the thoughts of the human mind in beautiful language. In fact, it has been proven to be true for thousands of years. Not only this, with the help of fire you can do welding.

There are millions of examples around the world of people getting involved in physical games with someone else despite having a physical relationship with the person they love. That relationship or just the body. There is no place for the mind. People did not admit before. Akon may be acknowledged by many.

Today’s generation is further ahead in this regard. With the advent of web series and movies, the hidden desires of the human mind are becoming more and more apparent. The opposite is also true. The hidden instincts of the people may be shown in the form of stories on the silver screen.

But how to understand the difference between love and desire? Psychologists say many do not understand this difference. As a result, he is often in danger. Or suffer from depression. Physical damage is different.

Ways to understand
– Everything in love is selfless. Even if there is no sex with the person you love, the relationship of the mind remains intact. But in the case of desire, there is only one purpose. Sexuality. In this case the mind has no relation. The whole body is everything.

– Love has a geographical distance but it has no effect on it. But when the distance is created by desire, the partner changes.

– Hours after hours can be spent just talking to the people you love. But once the body is satisfied with the partner of desire, there is no attraction.
– If you like to see someone, if you only think about having sex with him, then you have to understand that you are a victim of lust.
– Physical attraction or desire is temporary. After a certain time, that fascination disappears. Love is long lasting.

– For the people of desire, there is never any abandonment, compromise, patience or emotional emotion in the mind. As soon as the happiness of the body disappears, the preoccupation starts to leave him. The mind wants to run away to the people of love.

– The mind wants to be by the side of people in need, sorrow, suffering, danger. Upset for him. I feel helpless when I don’t get his attention.

Danger
Research by psychologists says that there are many people who have a physical relationship with each other despite having a loving partner. The situation is such that they become accustomed to it. This tendency is especially seen in the case of polygamy.

Many a times the person in love goes to another partner only for the sake of physical happiness due to being physically disabled.
Real unwanted relationships are never suppressed. Physical contact with another person due to nature eventually takes away from the person you love. Leaving aside the issue of social stigma, separation from one’s partner due to excessive desires makes a person mentally exhausted.
Diseases of the body can be easily cured. But it takes a long time to cure mental illness.

Again, it is often seen that people accustomed to lust have found the man of the mind in lust. Both physical and mental happiness are under his control. However, psychologists believe that such relationships are rare today.

According to psychologists, it is foolish to invite any major mental or physical problem for temporary happiness. If he violates the law of nature, he has to pay the toll. The danger comes only when you become a play doll while playing physical games with others. Or if you know that the person you love is as sensual and attracted to another body as you are, then it takes a lot of mental strength to accept it.

Too much desire and regular companionship is bad news for future generations.

So how you reconcile desire and love depends on you alone. If there is a problem, consult a psychologist. Keep both body and mind healthy.